what you want to do

If you don’t already know what you want to do,

trying to settle on a passion may take longer

than building one by mastering something that

meshes well with your strengths. Either way,

the important thing to remember is to build up

mastery as quickly as possible—being really

great at what you do is a form of career

capital.

your goals

Once you have your values figured out, list

your goals. Big and small, what 10 or 15 things

do you want to accomplish in the next ten

years? Look at how those match up with your

values and strengths, and make a rough plan

for when you’ll work toward them and which

one or two you’ll tackle first. Get your

gratifying work from that—do what it will take

to achieve your goals.

Happiness Tool : Gratifying work

Happiness Tool : Gratifying

work

Happy for no Reason

 Happy for no Reason

Happiness Tool : Looking for the Good

Happiness Tool : Looking for

the Good

Commit yourself to this forgiveness

Commit yourself to this forgiveness

forgiveness

The defining book on forgiveness was written

by Everett Worthington and suggests the

REACH process:

guaranteed

If you blame others, you’re all but guaranteed

to enjoy this state forever, because the only

way the situation is likely to change is if you

act.

Happiness Tool : Forgiveness

Happiness Tool : Forgiveness

Blame

Blame

Entitlement

Entitlement

Have you been wronged?

Have you been wronged? Has something that

happened to you kept you from doing what you

want to do, or living the life you want?

Happiness Tool : Responsibility

Happiness Tool :

Responsibility

own worst enemy

For years I had been my own worst enemy,

yourself

yourself, you’re arguing with yourself, but bear

with me. If you’re already talking to yourself,

there are at least two of you in your head.

Be the change you want

Gandhi had it half right when he

said, “Be the change you want

to see in the world.”

you can do it

If you feel called to reach asmall number of people more

personally, you can do it.

millions, even billions

If you feel called to reach a large

number of people - thousands,

millions, even billions - you can

do it.

personal or indirect

 personal or indirect

World-Changers Come in All Sizes

World-Changers

Come in All Sizes

Be creative!

Be creative!

Happiness Tool 4: Being Nice

Happiness Tool 4: Being Nice

to Yourself

Opt Out of Copyright

Opt Out of Copyright

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Other Opt-Out Options

Other Opt-Out Options

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paradigm system.

paradigm system

Communicate Openly and Honestly

Communicate Openly and

Honestly

Opt Out of the Food Industry

Opt Out of the Food Industry

Experiment.

 Experiment.

kids suffer

Is it any wonder our kids suffer

from depression, addiction, and

suicidal tendencies?

Make Personal Growth a Group Project

Make Personal Growth a GroupProject

Opt Out of Public School

Opt Out of Public School

Find Fabulous Friends

Find Fabulous Friends

Opt Out of Religion

Opt Out of Religion

communication

We could write an entire book

about communication (and in fact,

we did), but for now let’s focus on

the two most important things:

Opt Out of Politics

Opt Out of Politics

Connect with Each-Other "+"

Connect with Each-Other "+"

Opt Out of the Job Culture

Opt Out of the Job Culture

Practice saying no

 Practice saying no

forget the pain

forget the pain in our lives for just

a little while, flipping channels

as a form of self-medication and

tuning out.

increase your personal power

Here are some of those baby steps

to increase your personal power...

Opt Out of TV

Opt Out of TV

Read a book about productivity.

 Read a book about productivity.

What can you do?

 What can you do?

“should”

 Eliminate the word “should”

from your vocabulary.

Opt Out of the News

Opt Out of the News

Disconnect from the Control Paradigm

Disconnect from

the Control

Paradigm

about happiness

about happiness....

Connect with Spirit

Connect with Spirit

What’s Wrong with the World?

What’s Wrong with

the World?

MONEY

Hi! We’re gaurav and sunita.

gauarav: I’m a friendly, overconfident, spiritual geek. I’m bi, poly, trans,

and vegetarian. I love to play Boggle and Dance Dance Revolution. I’ve been known to knock over innocently

bystanding coffee cups with my wild hand-waving when I get excited, so stand back!

sunita: I’m a wife, a mother, a daughter, a sister, a friend. I’m freaky, geeky, witchy, and gay; divinely human,

learning how to have faith. I have a fondness for girl singers and piano, and I have many brightly colored tattoos.

I’m a storyteller and a gatherer of stories.

Together, we’re partners in business and in life. We live in Austin, Texas with our amazing son vitarv & angelus, three dogs,

and lots of faeries.One afternoon, we were blindsided by the overwhelming desire to take what we love and find a

way to make it into a living. Pace loves to explain things and sunita loves to tell stories, so together we created our

business, started our blog, wrote a book, and got ridiculously excited about helping people.

Then we found an amazing thing: the more we grew, the more we learned, and the more we changed ourselves,

the more we wanted to change the world. We took our knowledge and our passions, mushed everything together,

and started the Connection Revolution. We’re now helping people change the world by teaching connection,

personal growth, communication, and empowerment.

We hope you join us - we can’t do it alone.